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Friday, July 15, 2016

Pornography Addiction Counseling ஆபாசம் அடிமையாதல் கலந்தாய்வு അശ്ലീലം ല...





Pornography Addiction Counseling

ஆபாசம் அடிமையாதல் கலந்தாய்வு
അശ്ലീലം ലഹരി കൗൺസലിംഗ്

A pornography addiction can best be
described as an obsessive relationship with a fantasy.
It is a special class of sex
addiction distinct from promiscuity, compulsive masturbation, anonymous sex,
pedophilia, phone sex, fetishes, voyeurism, etc. For some sexually addicted
people, pornography has little appeal. For others, their entire sex addiction
revolves around pornography. For many others, pornography is a supplement to
their regular sexu
ally addictive behavior.
Pornography
gives the user the illusion that each and every one of his or her addictive
sexual compulsions can be met through fantasy. It can be described as an
obsessive relationship with a fantasy. Pornography, like any other sex
addiction, becomes the user's fix. The user becomes so enraptured, they end up
destroying good relationships, spending hours and sometimes days cruising the
Internet for porn and throwing out thousands of dollars on illusions.
At
first it is almost impossible for someone caught up in a pornography addiction
to believe that he or she can find real sexual enjoyment and better sexual
pleasure with a person instead of a fantasy. However, with effective
counseling, a genuine relationship does become the pornography addicted
person's preferred sexual interest.
Some
people addicted to pornography would rather have sex with their partner than
with a pornographic fantasy. Yet, they keep returning to pornography because
they don't know how to overcome their addiction. For them, learning and applying
the principles of overcoming addiction is the issue.
Some
pornography addicts believe they have the best of both worlds: their
relationship and their addiction. Their belief is mistaken. In fact, they live
with a severely limited relationship and a hidden addiction. One of the great
rewards of overcoming a pornography addiction is the ability to be fully
committed to another person in a loving way, having nothing to hide and
enjoying great, loving sex.

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